Real case:
Someone told me that my friend’s make up is so overdo that it makes her looks like clown or transgender, (mind his language), so he said as a good friend and ‘sesama wanita’ I better tell her to put more natural make up.
Should I? And how? Coz she looks so confident and comfy with that. But I’m sad to hear repeated comment about that, this is not the first time.
Conclusion after discussion:
No need to tell her especially if she is confident and comfortable with her look, let her be. Coz even if I tell her, it won’t stop her and instead she will be pissed off. Because goodwill is just not enough.