You know what’s the biggest pain in the ass about having a family? That HUGE responsibility to serve them well. That guilty feeling when you cant perform as a good wife & mom. When you work your ass 24/7 to make sure everything is going well at home. When you have to make sure meal is ready before your spouse & kids leave home on weekdays or before they wake up at noon on weekend. When you cant simply stay lazily in bed and ignore those kids are asking for foods & drinks while your spouse is stoned in front of tv without even feeling guilty. When you have to make sure their homeworks are done correctly because your spouse falls asleep while assisting them. When you have to think hard how to leave kids and who will pick them up when you must have a meeting, so your spouse can go to office everyday without having to think about that. When you have to think a thousand time before leaving them because you’re not sure anybody can take care of your kids well when you’re gone. Coz you cant be irresponsible and have a family at the same time. It’s just not right.
January 20132 min read