#BKKTrip #Day3 The conversation with NZ lady went on. She said she had married for 38 years and just split last month. The main reason was because her husband curb her so much and didn’t give her space to grow, that she almost cant recognize herself anymore.
“My 31 year old daughter was so disappointed with my decision that she doesnt talk to me, coz she’s a little daddy girl. But I’ve been holding this too long and I don’t think I have that much time to be free. I grew up but it’s for him not for myself, I want to be free like this, traveling anywhere I want and enjoy life to the fullest. My duty for my children has fulfilled so now I can go on to live a life the way I really want.”
“My advise to you, dont restrain to grow and evolve yourself. Do what you like to do, if you have a good job dont quit, build your own business, make your own money, have good friends. So eventhough you’re married, you don’t loose yourself and all the potentials within.”
And to hubby, she said: “It’s important to give your spouse freedom to do whatever she likes on her own.”
To which hubby responded: “Yes I always let her free, she often travel alone because I dont like travelling.”
True, and I thank you for that dear :) with Natali – View on Path.