I used to match my dress with my hubby’s outfit when we attend the same event, simply because it looks cute & harmonic. But now I don’t do it anymore except for a wedding event. Why? Because I learned that when we wear the same outfit, I just become his shadow, and I dislike it. New acquaintances will only know me as “Natali’s wife”, not as “Nuniek Tirta”. Not that I’m not proud being his wife, but I just don’t wanna be there merely as “trophy wife”. You know, the kind of wife who just sit down nicely without willing to get involve in the conversation. I want them to know me more and vice versa. I’m there to widen my network & knowledge. And not just being a mannequin. – View on Path.