If relationship is a game, #crush is the basic, #care is intermediate, #love is the advance.
If negative things you heard can make you “ilfil” to someone, then most probably it’s just a #crush, not #care nor #love.
If u #care for him, u dare to tell him what’s wrong/right n take the risk to be disliked/hated by him, for his own sake.
When betrayal crashed your trust and denial lost your faith but the feeling remains still, then thats #love =)