It ain’t easy Bob.
Specifically on the “don’t expect more than he can give” part. I think EXPECT is the keyword here. Aren’t we human (whether secretly or loudly) tend to expect something more? The scale of that expectation whether are bigger or smaller then varies between each individual. but it’s there.
And the “Don’t analyze” part. Come on Bob, you know woman analyze anything and everything. Most of the time we just keep it for ourselves (and unload it all at once when an issue arises ?)
But i do agree with you on principal, Bob.